Therapy Insights & Resources
What therapy AI bots miss
AI therapy bots can be comforting, but emotional change often depends on what isn’t yet fully conscious or easy to say. This post looks at the limits of AI support and the role of human therapy in working with deeper emotional patterns.
Why Change Is Hard: The Terrible Dilemma of Growth
Change can be hard, even when we want it. Learn why progress often feels risky, why old patterns pull us back, and how understanding this tension can help us grow.
Why Do I Keep Dating the Same Person in a Different Outfit?
Different partner, same relationship? You may not be repeating a mistake—you may be trying to repair something unfinished. A psychodynamic look at why relationship patterns repeat, and how therapy helps loosen their grip.
Is Therapy Working—or Am I Just Talking a Lot?
Is therapy working, or are you just very good at talking about your problems? This article explains how real change shows up—slowly, subtly, and often in ways you don’t expect.
Emotional Overdrive: When Staying Up Is a Way of Avoiding Down
Emotional overdrive often looks like productivity, energy, or ambition—but it can be a way of avoiding sadness or depression. For ambitious adults, slowing down may feel uncomfortable or unsafe. This article explores why emotional overdrive develops, how it protects us, and what becomes possible when we finally allow ourselves to pause and feel more fully.
A Resolution to Suffer (Differently)
When happiness becomes the goal, emotional difficulty can feel like something has gone wrong. This essay explores why learning to live with discomfort—rather than eliminating it—can open up meaning, choice, and change.
Beyond Techniques: What Creates Lasting Change in Therapy
Therapy today is dominated by evidence-based modalities focused on symptom management. Psychoanalytic and psychodynamic therapy is often written off as dated or unscientific. This essay revisits those assumptions, explores how neuroscience supports early psychoanalytic ideas, and explains the “sleeper effect”—why deeper, insight-oriented therapy can lead to change that continues long after sessions stop.